Have you ever received those uplifting messages on your phone about seeing the glass as half full in life from an individual who could never escape their half-empty mindset? A message on embracing the light of a candle instead of cursing the darkness from another who incessantly grumbles without cause? A message on finding joy in the simplest things and the power of a smile from someone who consistently wears a frown, seemingly the wellspring of sorrow and gloom? A message commending the art of “letting go” from an individual competing with the devil in scrutinizing the minutiae? Have you received those wise messages about forgiveness, tolerance, and peace from someone who’s constantly embroiled in conflicts with a growing list of enemies each day? A message about peace, love, and goodness from a person who harbors jealousy and resentment deep down? Or even a message on reassurance and tranquility from someone who relies on pills to sleep due to their endless worries? Let’s not forget those who flood your phone with daily doses of happiness recipes, even though they themselves seem to be caught in the clutches of misery. And what about the ones who share moving sermons capable of stirring remorse and emotions but haven’t prayed to God in days?
They may claim commitment, yet their deeds are known only to the darkness and isolation. Whenever you receive one of those beautifully adorned quotes about self-improvement, ethics, or wise counsel, accompanied by comments like “a gem I’ve found” or “must read,” from individuals riddled with moral ailments and contradictions, how do you make sense of these paradoxes? Surely, you’ve encountered people who advocate for idealism through their posts and tweets on platforms like Twitter, only for their ideals to crumble when faced with harsh reality.
They bend their principles based on their company and circumstances, unwilling to apply the same standards to themselves and their loved ones. Sadly, this kind of hypocrisy diminishes the impact of their affection over time. Is it possible for someone to keenly observe and critique the flaws of others, all while remaining blind to the fact that they embody the very faults they condemn? Can we excel at theorizing about others’ lives, offering lessons and guidance as wise mentors and enlightened preachers, yet neglect the fact that we should be the primary beneficiaries of these teachings, obligated to put them into practice? Contradictions thrive within us and among those around us, compelling us to engage in introspection and assess our actions with genuine sincerity. Confronting our own mistakes and inadequacies head-on requires courage.
It involves delving deep into our inner selves and maintaining acute awareness of our thoughts, environment, motives, and influences. This heightened awareness is pivotal for authentic self[1]honesty. Being truthful with ourselves demands a thorough exploration of truths and a reevaluation of established beliefs, all while exercising discernment in our assessments. So here’s my message for both you and me: Let’s embrace self-honesty, even though it’s one of the most challenging things to do. While we might be able to deceive others, we can’t deceive ourselves. Refrain from untruths to garner admiration, and do not shy away from truth even if it distances people. Sincerity is its own reward. Honesty and accepting our imperfections are essential for personal integrity, emotional balance, and finding peace within ourselves. Let’s live authentically – thinking, speaking, and acting in a way that truly reflects who we are, without burdening our souls by chasing an ideal that wasn’t meant for us in the first place.
